Sunday, February 28, 2010

Love

Read this from a forwarded mail.

你发觉了吗? 爱的感觉,总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜 总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担,你终於不再孤单了,至少有一个人想著你、恋著你,不论做什么事情,只要能一起,就是好的...........但是慢慢的,随著彼此的认识愈深,你开始发现了对方的缺点,於是问题一个接著一个发生,你开始烦、累,甚至想要逃避,有人说爱情就像在捡石头,总 想捡到一个适合自己的,但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢?他/她适合你,那你又适合他/她吗?
其实,爱情就像磨石子一样,或许刚捡到的时候,你不是那么的满意,但是记住人是有弹性的,很多事情是可以改变的,只要你有心、有勇气,与其到处去捡未知的 石头,还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮,你开始磨了吗?很多人以为是因为感情淡了,所以人才会变得懒惰。错!其实是人先被惰性征服,所以感情才会变 淡的。在某个聚餐的场合,有人提议多吃点虾对身体好,这时候有个中年男人忽然说「十年前,当我老婆还是我的女朋友的时候,她说要吃十只虾,我就剥二十只给 她!现在,如果她要我帮她剥虾壳,开玩笑!我连帮她脱衣服都没兴趣了,还剥虾壳咧!」听到了吗?明白了吗?难怪越来越多人只想要谈一辈子的恋爱,却迟迟不 肯走入婚姻。因为,婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。如果每个人都懒得讲话、懒得倾听、懒得制造惊喜、懒得温柔体贴,那么夫妻或是情人之间,又怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢?
*所以请记住:有活力的爱情,是需要适度殷勤灌溉的,谈恋爱,更是不可以偷懒的喔!有一对情侣,相约下班後去用餐、逛街,可是女孩因为公司会议而延误了, 当她冒著雨赶到的时候已经迟到了30多分钟,他的男朋友很不高兴的说:你每次都这样,现在我甚么心情也没了,我以後再也不会等你了!刹那间,女孩终於决堤 崩溃了,她心里在想:或许,他们再也没有未来了同样的在同一个地点,另一对情侣也面临同样的处境;女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头,他的男朋友说:「我想 你一定忙坏了吧!」接著他为女孩拭去脸上的雨水,并且脱去外套盖在女孩身上,此刻,女孩流泪了但是流过她脸颊的泪却是温馨的。你体会到了吗?其实爱、恨往 往只是在我们的一念之间!爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时,很多事可能只是在於你心境的转变罢了!懂了吗?当有个人爱上你,而你也觉得他不错。那并不代 表你会选择他。我们总说:「我要找一个自己很爱很爱的人,才会谈恋爱。」但是当对方问你,怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候,你却无法回答他,因为你自己也不知 道。没错,我们总是以为,我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。可是後来,当我们猛然回首,我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。假如从来没有开始,你怎么知道自己 会不会很爱很爱那个人呢?其实,很爱很爱的感觉,是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现的。或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣,但是你有 没有想过『在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了,只是你没发觉而已呢?』所以,还是仔细看看身边的人吧!他或许已经等你很久了当你爱一个人的时 候,爱到八分绝对刚刚好。所有的期待和希望都只有七八分;剩下两三分用来爱自己。如果你还继续爱得更多,很可能会给对方沉重的压力,让彼此喘不过 气来,完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。 所以请记住,喝酒不要超过六分醉,吃饭不要超过七分饱,爱一个人不要超过八分如果你也正在为爱迷惘,或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示: 爱一个人要了解,也要开解;要道歉,也要道谢;要认错,也要改错;要体贴,也要体谅;是接受,而不是忍受;是宽容,而不是纵容;是支持,而不是支配;是慰 问,而不是质问;是倾诉,而不是控诉;是难忘,而不是遗忘;是彼此交流,而不是凡事交代;是为对方默默祈求,而不是向对方诸多要求;可以浪漫,但不要浪费!

I like the last sentence and it makes sense to me~

爱一个人要了解,也要开解;要道歉,也要道谢;要认错,也要改错;要体贴,也要体谅;是接受,而不是忍受;是宽容,而不是纵容;是支持,而不是支配;是慰 问,而不是质问;是倾诉,而不是控诉;是难忘,而不是遗忘;是彼此交流,而不是凡事交代;是为对方默默祈求,而不是向对方诸多要求;可以浪漫,但不要浪费!

So what do you think about it?!?

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Geraldyne's Birthday

Date: 6th February 2010
Time: 9pm
Venue: Ole Ole Bali, Sunway

What do you think about birthday celebration?!? Maybe it is fun for those youngsters to hang out together and share the cake; perhaps damage the cake by pressing the head towards the cake while he or she blowing the candles. But all these won't be seen as our age increasing... Miss the moment in past so much... Today is Geraldyne's birthday, i think i have no right to annouce her age right here since it is so privacy for a lady. Anyway, we (Gillbert, Janalle and me) have celebrated with her at 2 stops - BBQ Korea and Ole Ole Bali. No pictures captured at BBQ Korea. Happy Birthday and enjoys for the entire year!!!









MAY ALL YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE!!!

Saturday, February 6, 2010

Bowling Tournament

Date: 15th January 2010
Time: 7pm ~ 11pm
Venue: Ampang Superbowl, Kajang

This was my first time joining Genetec Bowling Tournament, friendly speaking that night i was so stressful to play with my team members. They were so professional in the game where they were the 1st runner up winner last year. Even though all the lanes or balls are the same in every places, but this time the feeling is totally different. There were total of 13 groups of participants, all were trying their best to score in the competition. After 4 hrs game, finally the results released. My group discrepanted just only 3 points with the 1st runner up group. Cis... Feel not worthiness at all... There was lucky draw season too, but too bad i got nothing from that. Anyway, hope next year can get better results in the tournament~ GAMBATEH!!!


Battle Field

Trophies and medals

Lucky Draw Prizes

Refreshment

Combatants:
Team 1 (Playing FoOtball?!?)

Team 2

Team 3

Team 4

Team 5

Team 6

Team 7

Team 8

Team 9

Team 10

Team 11

Team 12 (MY TEAM!!!)

Team 13

Game Starts.. See how serious i am!!!

Audiences of my lane... Wao...

Prize giving section

Lucky draw annoucement

The luckians



Individual winners





Group Champion

Managing director was giving the voucher to my team leader

We are the 2nd runner up winner!!! (1st runner up winner picture lost)

The event was successful!!! See you next year~

P/S: All the pictures are provided by Ms. PK O..